FAQ's about a 121 with me

 

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FAQs - Frequently Asked Questions

Can I Touch You?

Will You Be Naked To?

Can I Fuck You / Will You Fuck Me?

Are you Safe?

Do You Do Out-Calls?

Where are you located?

How discreet is it?

What Exactly Am I Paying For?

Is there parking available?

I am married, does that make a difference? 

Can I / Will I ejaculate /cum in the session?

Will you become sexual too / cum?

What oil do you use?

Can I shower afterwards?

Do I need to bring anything with me?

Do I need any prior Tantric Experience for our session?

I have problems with my erection – can I still have a this session? 

Can I Touch You?

Yes, I am really comfortable for you to touch me within our time together. Tantra is a pathway to consciousness to enlightenment and I ask that if you touch me you are doing that from a place of wanting to make connection from a place of loving touch and loving response.

What works really well for me is gentle considered touch. Within our session I may vary the amount of touch depending on where I am at on that particular day. Each session I offer is very personal to me. In our session together I am creating a sacred and sexual space just for you.

Will You Be Naked To?

Yes. At the start of each session I will become undressed in the opening parts of the session. Foe example, massage, before I start massaging. Tantric Rituals, undressing maybe the start of our session together.

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Can I Fuck You / Will You Fuck Me?

Typically No. But I am human and I say that you cannot work in a egg factory without cracking a few eggs. In my 10,000 clients I can count on 1 hand the times that this has happened. It was one of those 'in the moment' things, that felt right at that time. I ensured it was safe, and conscious and that both parties (me and the other) were both saying yes, that is was consensual.

You should not book a session with me with any expectation that we would have penetrative sex. Some of the deeper sessions I offer can feel more intimate than any of the best fucking session you may have had. If its really important to you, please do let me know and if it feels part of the session then there is a possibility, but please note what I said about the count on one hand and 10,000 clients.

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Are you Safe?

Like you get your car MOT'd once a year, I ensure that I have full STI screening once every 3 months. If there were any risk of any passing on any STI, I would stop offering sessions until that risk has passed.

In my sessions, safe practice is of paramount important. Namely STI screening as above, and also I ensure that there can be no cross contamination of fluids. For example I use gloves for any possibilities, creating a safe barrier between my clients and me. I always keep a stock of condoms with me, and its a bit like a fire extinguisher in the room. You keep one on the wall without every expecting to use it.

These 2 simple measures of safe practice during the session and also STI screening has meant that in the 8 years of offering 121 Tantra Sessions I have not contracted any STI. For me there is no shame of STI's is part of life and I am committed to safe, clean and ethical practice with my clients.

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Do You Do Out-Calls?

Yes, but there are some considerations, if not part of my trvel schedule I would typically ask for my day rate of £595 (appropriate country equivalant for non-UK) plus reasonable travel expenses (i.e. cost of flight or train ticket). This would give you 8 hours of my time, and depending on how long it takes me to get to you (and home again), would depend on the time we had for a session. If it took me 4 hours return journey, I would offer you a 4 hour session. You will need to pre-pay for the session and my travel tickets. Once booked there can be no refund, or moving the appointment. Once it is fixed (i.e. you have paid for the session) it is fixed. If I cannot make it for any reason (i.e. illness) I will offer you a full refund.

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Where are you located?

I have the benefit of working in many different studio's accross the world depending on my trave plans. Please be assured that each venue I use is both discreet and that no one knows why you are at this place. Your total discretion is of utmost importance to me. 

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How discreet is it?

I have the benefit of working in many different studio's accross the world depending on my trave plans. Please be assured that each venue I use is both discreet and that no one knows why you are at this place. Your total discretion is of utmost importance to me. 

I use a variety of typically residential and "treatment" style venues, so it is very discreet in that no one knows why you are attending a session.

When you book, you may give me your email address and phone number. I will never use your contact number to contact you other than to chase a no show or in exceptional circumstances if there is a problem with your booked in appointment. As part of your booking I will add you to my monthly newsletter, but, if you prefer not to receive this, you only have to click onto the unsubscribe button.

If I were to see you outside the context of our session I would just ignore you. Unless you said hello to me and I would only respond with a hello back. At no point would I ever confirm you were a client with me, and I would never discuss the details of our session together with anyone else. The only exception is in my supervision relationships but I would anonymise your details because the reason of supervision is to talk about my work, rather than you as an individual. Supervision is good for me as it makes sure that I offer clean, safe and ethical practice.

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What Exactly Am I Paying For?

You are paying for my time. That means the block of time of our session, just for me to be present in a room with you. Also if arranged your paying for travelling time to if outside of my normal session time offering. Anything that happens between us is between consenting adults. That means that by the nature of what session you have booked, we are both consenting to the spirit of that session. By that I mean that we are both saying Yes to the spirit, to the framework of that session. Where we may deviate from the exact description could be for a variety of reasons. It seems more appropriate in the session to follow intuition of were we are guided, i.e. it might be that we do something different as described here because it seems the right thing to do. Whenever this may happen I will check in with you that is ok, or we can revert to back to the programme. The other times we may deviate is if emotional content is coming up for you and it feels appropriate to stay and comfort or explore what it is coming you for you. If at anytime during the session it is not going how you would like, it is your responsibility to voice that.

So in essence you are paying for my time, and everything described here is an intention of what I am offering you. However it may intuitively present that we need to deviate (and in these cases I will either ask you if that is ok, or if your not happy with the session, it is your responsibility to say so), or, if stuff is coming up for you that we need to be with.

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Is there parking available?

For sessions I use a variety of venues, please do be in touch with me and I can let you know about parking for the venue I am planning on using.

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I am married, does that make a difference? 

 Would you believe that 70% of my clients would describe themselves as straight and are typically married often with children. I make no judgements and I have no opinion on how you describe yourself, I welcome you to your session as a man who is consenting to the session you have booked in the spirit and acceptance just as you are, perfect!

I won't pry or ask other questions and anything you do tell me remains confidential within our session. I do have supervision and so occasionally I may talk about client sessions (anonymously) in those sessions the aim is to help be a healthy and evolving practitioner. In the very unlikely chance that I would bump into you in public I would act as if I have not seen you unless you say hello to me first. If you did say hello then I would respond but again being confidential about out time together unless you choose to discuss it first.

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Can I / Will I ejaculate /cum in the session?

Each Tantric Session I offer is different. Where ejaculation / cumming is offered as part of the session I explicitly say so in the description. If you can not see that listed and specifically want that to happen, please do let me know and I will see to integrate that within our session together. Equally if you prefer not to ejaculate as part of the session please do let me know.

In Tantra there are so many contradictions about ejaculation and I worry that sometimes saying you can't ejaculate is another form of control. Tantra is about a pathway to freedom, not another excuse for controlling others. When I ejaculate / cum it feels great. I love the surge in my body and when it tenses and the feeling of release. That feels great. As a Tantra Teacher / Practitioner I also know how it is to choose not to cum and to go into what I describe as orgasmic states, or otherwise described as mind altered states of consciousness. I know that if I choose to ejaculate / cum I loose that that energy. So I have choice, and that is what I offer you choice. Unless you tell me specifically that you do not wish to ejaculate I will assume that you would like the session as described here.

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Will you become sexual too / cum?

I am really comfortable with some touch during a massage session. As to how much touch will depend on where I am and what I am feeling at on that day. I am really comfortable working in the field of sexual energy and as such often become sexually aroused. I do use that arousal to provide you with the energy for your session. I believe that I can transfer some of my erotic energy to you, channel it to you, to intensify your experience.

It's up you how you choose to respond to my being sexually aroused. You have no responsibility or need to to interact with my sexual arousal. Its completely up to you. If you choose to touch me, that's ok. If I don't want you to touch me I'll move away.

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What oil do you use?

I always use nut free, plant based oils for your massage. If you have any allergies please tell me about these before you session takes place. 

Can I shower afterwards?

Yes, I have a shower that you are very welcome to use and I invite you to have shower before and after our session. .

Do I need to bring anything with me?

No. Just a body yearning and an openness to our session.

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Do I need any prior Tantric Experience for our session?

No, you don't need any previous experience of Tantra to receive any of my sessions. When you arrive I will explain everything necessary about the session before it begins. If you have any questions please do ask me before we start.

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I have problems with my erection – can I still have a this session?

Tantra believes that your body responds perfectly. I feel it doesn't matter whether you have an erection or not to experience the powerful and sometimes transformative nature of Tantra. I offer you to let go of any judgements or views about getting an erection and allow your body to sink into and enjoy the session being offered.

 If you have any questions that I have not answerred, please do contact me. I very much look forward to the opportunity of offering a session to you. Thanks Jason :-) 

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