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Certified Life Coach, Gottman Coach Training, Master's Degree in Anthropology and Sociology.

About Me

Hello, my name is Brandon and I live in Seattle, Washington, but originally come from Southern California. I grew up on a small farm in a very conservative city. I love Seattle because of all the water, trees, and outdoor activities.

I became an anthropology/sociology instructor and researcher, focusing on various healing practices around the globe. After discovering tantra in 2017, I have had the calling to create a space for people to connect on a deeper level, both inwards and outwards. This has led me to become a life coach focusing on connection and intimacy, mixed with tantra. This is a continuing spiritual and mindful practice for me, as I am always growing.

As someone who has struggled with body dysmorphia, PTSD, child abuse, dyslexia, and other issues, I want to help create that space in our community; a place for connection, intimacy, and healing. My top three core values are peace, fun, love, and I want to be able to guide others to unlock the blocks that might be holding them back from having what they want in their lives.

Why I Facilitate

Going through various programs, retreats, and from traveling around the globe conducting research and learning from others, I find that I thrive when I teach people what I learn. Seeing people’s worlds open up to new possibilities, connections that they create, thoughts that they change, the intimacy they build, and the energy that we can play with through tantra is wonderful. I love finding and using tools that are helpful, I use all the tools that I use in my personal life as well and see the changes and growth that are created from those.

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