Healing Through Bondage and Submission

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It would sound strange to say that you can heal past trauma in your life by making a conscious choice to give up and surrender and let what will happen, happen. To choose a Bondage and Submission Session as a journey to healing a history of rape and abuse.
 
Often survivors of abuse whether sexual, mental or physical including rape will seek a journey of healing to try and over come what has happened. I used to specialise as a counsellor of male survivors and I think the first step on any healing journey is definitely talking therapy. To explore feelings around the situation and to express to learn to express anger, to express rage, to reflect on feelings of self-loathing and and low self-esteem.
 
And then from experience there becomes a time when your kind done with the talking but there is still so much more to do, it feels like there is still a large part of the journey to do. For it then becomes about embodying or bringing it all back to the body, to reconnect and bring the mind, body and spirit back together.
 
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One of the biggest things for rape victims for me is that they had no choice of what happened to them. They could not choose …. they lost the power of that ability to make a choice.
 
My Bound God session is designed to help men surrender, totally and completely. To give you all notions of any form of control. But what can be the most empowering thing is to give choice that they will give up to surrender.
 
In that single act, the empowerment of having that choice to give up and surrender is for me a place of total raw beauty. A place where the healing really happens because the individual has taken back control of a situation and made a choice to have that experience.
 
That for me is where the healing is then embodied because throughout the session the individual can choose the act of surrender, and in that let go, and give up control. Often men that have experienced trauma in their life take back control to a point where they are very uptight, holding everything inside and nothing is expressed (I do wonder if that leads to illness at some point), but the act of letting go, of surrendering can open the individual again to allowing life, the experience of life to flow through.
 
I have said many many times, that you can only experience Bliss, the universal physical sense of of Bliss and Orgasm pulsing through your body when you are in a state of total surrender.

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So I really want to acknowledge the bravery and the honesty of this person to make that conscious choice. It was interesting because after the session they said they had never ever felt experiences of orgasm like this in his body before, it was as if, as if, he felt alive... 
 

 

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